A strong sou’easter wind intensified, causing choppy waves on the lobster fishing boat in Aldouane, N.B. Amid the challenging conditions, the author’s mother jokingly advised, “Drive it like you stole it!”
Cruising at a steady pace to stabilize the boat over the turbulent waves, the author and her mother shared a nervous laugh, grateful to wrap up their fishing expedition early. As they approached a point where two currents collided, a sudden shift in direction led to a jolting encounter with rough waters.
With the boat tilting violently, the author clung to a metal pole as her mother skillfully steered to prevent a capsizing disaster. Eventually, they navigated to the calmer Richibucto River, relieved and bonded by their shared survival experience.
Reflecting on the day’s events, they discovered a boat sank just a few kilometers away, underscoring the dangers of maritime life. Despite the risks, the author’s family, deeply rooted in the maritime industry, thrives on the challenges and uncertainties of the ocean.
Breaking gender norms in a male-dominated industry, the author’s mother, a seasoned lobster captain, paved the way for female representation in maritime leadership. Despite prevailing superstitions, she overcame obstacles to establish herself as a respected figure in the field.
Inspired by her mother’s legacy, the author finds solace and purpose in fishing, cherishing the serene moments at sea while acknowledging the inherent perils of the profession. The unpredictability of the ocean parallels the unpredictability of life, with each journey serving as a poignant reminder of the delicate balance between beauty and danger.
As the author continues her fishing career, she anticipates more challenges and triumphs, knowing that every voyage brings both risks and rewards. Embracing the sailor’s life, she envisions a future where she, too, may earn the title of captain, carrying on her family’s seafaring legacy.