Nicole Robichaud, a lawyer and caregiver in Ottawa, shares her story about a cherished family tradition involving a folk art calendar that has been a constant Christmas gift for her mother over the past three decades. The calendar, a nostalgic token of joy from their Toronto upbringing, always held a special place in their holiday celebrations.
In 2015, when her mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s at 68, the progression of the disease brought significant changes. Despite the challenges, Robichaud and her family tried to maintain a positive outlook. Over the years, as her mother’s condition advanced, necessitating moves to different living arrangements, the calendar remained a constant presence, symbolizing continuity amidst the changes.
As her mother’s cognitive abilities declined, Robichaud found solace in the annual tradition of gifting the calendar. Even though her mother could no longer engage with the pictures or express her thoughts, Robichaud continued to share the calendar with her during visits, finding a sense of purpose and connection in those moments.
The act of giving the calendar each year transcended the limitations imposed by the disease, serving as a poignant reminder of their enduring bond and shared family traditions. Robichaud believes that through this simple gesture, she can convey her love and maintain a connection with her mother, providing a sense of familiarity and comfort in a challenging reality.
In the face of the uncertainties brought by Alzheimer’s, the calendar represents more than just a seasonal gift; it embodies Robichaud’s belief in the power of love, continuity, and spiritual connection beyond the physical realm. Looking ahead to the upcoming year, she finds hope and solace in the tradition, embracing the symbolic act of turning the page to a new chapter.